{"id":23653,"date":"2018-08-23T12:46:07","date_gmt":"2018-08-23T19:46:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.momservations.com\/?p=23653"},"modified":"2018-08-23T12:46:07","modified_gmt":"2018-08-23T19:46:07","slug":"going-full-golden-part-i-ii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/momservations.com\/index.php\/2018\/08\/23\/going-full-golden-part-i-ii\/","title":{"rendered":"Going Full Golden – Part I & II"},"content":{"rendered":"

Momservation: <\/strong>\u201cMaking the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.\u201d ~ Elizabeth Stone<\/p>\n

☺\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ☺\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ☺<\/p>\n

I left my heart in Boise five days ago. I still have the emotional shits over it. I think today I\u2019m going to go two spoons deep into some raw brownie mix for a shot of happiness. My husband, my dog, and my high school Senior daughter would say:<\/p>\n

\u201cWhat about us? Don\u2019t we make you happy?\u201d<\/p>\n

And to that I\u2019d say:<\/p>\n

\u201cWithout you, I would be going \u2018Full Golden\u2019.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cFull Golden\u201d is what my friend, Wendy, has dubbed the complete emotional meltdown of saying goodbye to your kid at college.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m going to tell you the \u201cFull Golden\u201d story now because I search out people who make me happy when I am sad. I don\u2019t want to read any more commiserating articles about how hard sending your kid off to college is and that we will survive it.<\/p>\n

I know I will survive it, but in this moment it sucks. I just need to live it and get through it. There are perfectly functioning adults walking around with grown children, so obviously this stage has a happy ending and solid poops at some point.<\/p>\n

In Part I of sharing my story of dropping my first born son off to college, let\u2019s share a laugh instead courtesy of Wendy. If you\u2019re feeling like a masochist and want a peek at my own going Full Golden moment, feel free to keep reading Part II.<\/p>\n

Part I<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hubby and I are almost to Winnemucca, Nevada, half-way into the 8 hour drive home to Sacramento after dropping Logan off for his first year at Boise State University. Amazingly, we haven\u2019t touched the tissues we bought when we were leaving town (shortly after Hubby had to use an old, emergency, bottom of the center console Chipotle napkin immediately after the goodbye when the surge of tears caught him by surprise). Maybe the barren, ugly, long-stretching highway through endless sagebrush has lulled us into numb trance. We just want to get through the desolate desert and get home to the daughter waiting for us.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s when I get a text from my friend, Wendy, who is 2 hours behind us and who has just said her parking lot goodbye to her daughter outside the dorms at Boise.<\/p>\n

THAT GOODBYE WAS ROUGH!<\/p>\n

Wendy and I like to keep it light so Hubby tells me to text her:<\/p>\n

AT LEAST YOU HAVE WINNEMUCCA TO LOOK FORWARD TO.<\/p>\n

It gave her the laugh through her tears that she needed before admitting that her husband, Tim, took it especially hard. She then told me about a Golden Retriever they saw have an equally hard time:<\/p>\n

WE SAW THIS PUPPER LAY DOWN AND NOT MOVE. I ASKED THE WOMAN IF HE WAS OK AND SHE SAID THIS IS THE LAST PLACE HE SAW HER DAUGHTER AND HE WASN\u2019T GOING TO MOVE. SHE THEN GOT DOWN ON THE GROUND AND GAVE HIM A LOT OF LOVE.<\/p>\n

Wendy followed it up with this sad picture with the text caption:<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

THIS IS WHAT TIM DID WHEN WE GOT BACK TO THE CAR. DID\u2019T MOVE AND JUST CRIED. SORRY, TRUE STORY.<\/p>\n

Now it was my turn to laugh\/cry.<\/p>\n

A few hours later Wendy hits Winnemucca (whose welcome sign actually says: \u201cWinnemucca. Proud of it,\u201d because they can hear from every passing vehicle, \u201cWho the hell would live here?!\u201d). She reports that they are doing better after some ice cream and good-natured family teasing. Wendy and her youngest daughter, Rosie, have come up with a new phrase for a complete emotional melt-down after leaving your kid at college:<\/p>\n

WE NOW CALL THIS GOING \u201cFULL GOLDEN\u201d<\/p>\n

I knew my Full Golden moment would probably be as soon as I opened my front door and noticed my son\u2019s Labrador-like energy missing. But instead of thinking about that I sent Wendy this picture with this text caption:<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

HOPE YOU\u2019RE OUT OF NEVADA. DON\u2019T PICK UP HITCHIKERS.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong>For those of you who would rather laugh through your tears STOP HERE. For those of you who need to bleed to know you\u2019re alive\u2026keep reading.<\/strong><\/p>\n

PART II<\/strong><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want my son to read this. It\u2019s not fair of me, as he embarks on this awesome journey, to hold him back with worry about how his mom is doing without him.<\/p>\n

Because he would worry.<\/p>\n

Because he\u2019s a good kid.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s one of the many reasons why I do miss him so much.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s Drop Your Kid Off at College Season and there are aching hearts all over this country. Mine is not unique.<\/p>\n

I almost didn\u2019t even write a blog about it because there already seems to be an oversaturation of sharing words of wisdom to get through it.<\/p>\n

At some point you can\u2019t prepare for it anymore, you just have to do it and live through it.<\/p>\n

But as a family columnist who has guided parents through the joys and pitfalls of raising a family, not writing about the reality of your kid leaving home would be like being left with a cliffhanger ending.<\/p>\n

So I\u2019m sorry if you read this, Logan, and it makes you worry about me. Please don\u2019t. I\u2019ll be fine. We moms and dads are tough. If we can make it through the three delirious sleep-deprived months of you waking up every three hours to be fed, and the time your heart broke over not making the team, and watching you suffer the pain of two knee surgeries relegating an otherwise healthy, active kid to the sidelines of life for six months, we can get through this.<\/p>\n

Every night of your entire life, for nearly 19 years I\u2019ve prayed to God to please bless you with good health, happiness, and safety.<\/p>\n

And as I left you in Boise, you indeed were healthy, extremely happy, and safe. My prayers are being answered. What is there to cry about? So, stop reading. This isn\u2019t for you. Go live the life we\u2019ve dreamed for you since before you took your first breath. Dad and I are truly thrilled you have taken over the writing of your story. We know it will be amazing. We look forward to the roles we will get to play in these next chapters. Thank you for letting us watch you grow up.\"\"<\/p>\n

\u2026<\/p>\n

When people ask me how I am doing I tell them: It\u2019s a confusing mix of happy and sad. I\u2019m happy for my son. I am sad for me.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s the reality<\/strong>: I\u2019m not ready to get used to my kids not being around; For that to be my new normal\u2014a quiet, empty house with two place settings at the table and no reason to restock the Rec Room fridge and snacks. I loved taking care of my kids. I loved the family chaos that having children brings. I was good at it. Plus, I just really, really like who these kids turned out to be and having a front row seat to where they were going.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s the truth:<\/strong> I have been walking around with a vice-grip around my chest since before my first-born left for college. Each thought of my son (and his group of friends) leaving and taking their infectious energy with them, squeezed me tighter until I felt I couldn\u2019t breathe.<\/p>\n

I started crying over Chex Mix, processed turkey, my placid and empty pool\u2026because these favorites of Logan\u2019s would be left behind.<\/p>\n

When it actually came time to say goodbye, I was okay. He was so happy already in his new home, my heart was lifted. I think for the 8-hour car ride through the ugly Nevada desert I was numb that it actually happened. My child had flown the nest.\"\"<\/p>\n

But when we pulled into the driveway and saw his beloved car sitting there where it would not move until Thanksgiving, the uncontrollable tears burst forth again.<\/p>\n

I kept checking myself because my husband was trying so protectively to hold it together so only one of us at a time would succumb to the sorrow over his absence. I checked myself because I didn\u2019t want my daughter to witness the pain of a child leaving\u2014I didn\u2019t want to burden her with worry for me when she leaves this time next year.<\/p>\n

But the weight of my sense of loss was crushing me inside. Everywhere I looked in my house was the ghost of my son\u2019s childhood that had promised to linger, but instead raced away like a kid playing tag.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t even escape it in sleep, as I dreamt of hurricanes and huge waves crashing\u2014symbolic for big changes and emotional upheaval.<\/p>\n

The first morning without my son, my daughter left to go to breakfast with friends (adding to the theme of my children leaving me), and my husband went to get eggs. Finally alone, like a wounded animal, I looked for a place to curl up and hide until I was better.<\/p>\n

I found myself in my son\u2019s strangely clean and quiet room, curling up in his comforter that smelled like him.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s when I went Full Golden\u2014a complete emotional breakdown caused by my kid leaving for college. I released the ache that had been gnawing away my insides and I sobbed out every bit of the 60% of water that my body is made of. I cried so hard and so loud, that my yellow Lab grew concerned and raced over to try to lick away my tears.<\/p>\n

For the sake of my worried dog, I calmed myself. Finally releasing the sorrow for this chapter of my life being over was the watershed I needed. Raising Logan was an amazing story that I had written for him. Like any good story, I\u2019m sad it ended even if it did have a happy ending. I wanted to reread it again and again because it was so good.<\/p>\n

But as I looked around Logan\u2019s room searching for solace, I realized none was to be found there. I was in his empty cocoon. He was now a butterfly who had taken everything with him that makes him Logan and flew off to his new life. Why was I wallowing in his stripped shell instead of marveling at his beautiful transformation?<\/p>\n

I dried my tears and got out of his bed. I resisted the temptation to shut his door to shield me from it\u2019s now Museum of Logan status.<\/p>\n

It was time to accept that it was Logan\u2019s turn to write his story. I am no longer the author; he is. I no longer have a front row seat to his unfolding life. I\u2019m now going to have to wait for excerpts through texts, FaceTime phone calls, and SnapChats.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not going to lie. It hurts. I\u2019ve been binge drinking up the moments of my children\u2019s lives for the last 19 years. Then I drop my son off at college and am forced to go cold-turkey. The withdrawals are rough.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s necessary. It would hurt more if after raising my son he didn\u2019t leave. I would have felt like I failed him if I had never given him the tools, the security, the craving to go out into the world and write his own story.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s been five days since I went Full Golden. The vice-grip, as promised by my friends who have survived their own children leaving home, has indeed loosened day by day. The waves of sorrow seem to be gently lapping at my feet now instead of crashing down on me. I still have one more year with my daughter, my last child, and I want to give her the best of me for her last year at home. He had the courage to leave. I need to have the courage to let him.<\/p>\n

In the meantime, my son has sent us excerpts from his new chapter of life. His dad and I have been sharing excerpts from ours. These first few pages are pretty promising. I think we are writing a great new sequel.<\/p>\n

Have a wonderful adventure, my heart. Lord, please keep him healthy, happy and safe.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

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